They say that when you look good, you feel good. I have proven this in my own life. There was a time in my life when I just sort of let go of myself. This was when I concentrated on everything around me and neglected myself tremendously. The result was me feeling so stressed all the time and putting on so much weight. Never will I go back to that hell hole ever again. There is something so great about getting older. You learn to appreciate the good and bad about yourself. Funny enough I grew up knowing that I was ugly but as I grew older I got to define beauty in a different way, a way that liberates me. I find that beauty manifests itself in very different ways. I have learnt to love my body and embrace it. I now have intimate conversations with my body to give it life and assurance that it is "The shit" excuse my French :)
I find that I love different styles in fashion but my style exudes sexiness. Fashion for me means being wearing something that is not only comfortable but enhances your femininity. What I wear depends on my mood at that moment. but often at times when I don't feel so good I make sure I look super good so that nobody feels my pain. There is so much sadness going around in the world and I don't wanna add to that sadness.
I have found a fashion blog and a Facebook page called "Mad About Fashion" by Buhle. I love this woman's style and it is exactly how I would like to groom myself. I love how this woman mixes colors and different textures. I love the different looks that she puts together which are fit for different occasions. The following is some of her work: